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For a while, you will hold hands everywhere, even when you don’t really want to (you just got out of a pub loo and didn’t dry your hands; you would quite like to get your phone out of your pocket but it’s in the same pocket as the hand they’re holding and you don’t want to stretch your arm across your body, etc).
Probably two or three dates in and this is what you’ve been waiting for.
You can throw this one out: nobody can buy houses these days.
To translate for the current economic climate: moving into a slightly nicer flat without any intrusive housemates around to walk in on your “romantic” cooking sessions. If you first met this boy or girl at 21 then no way.
So how do you know when you’ve reached the right time? A recent You Gov poll of 3,947 Brits found that the most popular time to say I love you was within the first three months of a relationship.
That’s right: 22% of us wait two to three months to make the declaration.
You ought have said “I love you” after four and a half months and had a talk about “the future” by a year. This assumes you haven’t got with each other already at a house party, as one person ashes on your bag and another screams because What Do You Mean? We no longer subscribe to Victorian values: Match is kind of right when it says it would be weird if you haven’t kissed by the end of the first date. It’s a little bit secondary school, and feels like more of a first-girlfriend-situation (you tentatively knocked hands and then held them for a bit on the bench outside Tesco). There will likely be a heart leap the first time you extend your hand, and then it will be normal.This is never more applicable then when it comes to love. There are many factors that inhibit us from saying I love you: fear, uncertainty, a bad past experience.Being ready to say those three little words means you’ve conquered these demons and feel confident that you’ll cope if – oh lordy – your beloved doesn’t say it back. If you feel pressured or overwhelmed, let’s assume it’s not the right time.Indeed, you’ve been thinking of little else when you’re together (or separated) – partly because you’d quite like to get it out of the way and make it, like the hand-holding, normal. Girls will be agonising about the time-old dilemma: wanting to wait for propriety’s sake, but also worrying that the boy will lose interest. It’s always really awkward putting your clothes on after you tore them off about half an hour earlier – it’s the comedown after the big night out.This milestone coincides roughly with the time you introduce your new person to your mates: perhaps there is a connection.