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And men are happy to do these things for us because they define their sense worth through their power to provide.
When you're in your feminine energy, you're the queen bee of the hive. The men in your life are the worker bees: giving, doing, nurturing, offering.
Even if he is your future, it's still important to have more people in your life than one. Not paying attention to early warning signs or thinking that they don't really matter. It's good to let the little things slide, but if you're letting every annoying as hell thing he does slide, you won't realize that you don't actually like him that much. You deserve a legit night out that he actually planned for both of you.
If he can't get a job he actually likes (so he's not constantly complaining about how horrible his social work job is because he hates children) on his own, you're not going to be able to move his lazy-ass mountains. Thinking that his past relationships don't necessarily mean anything. Not hanging out with your friends as much because he is your *~Fu Tu Re~*. But you don't want to stop watching marathons with Katie and Jill. Or, if you're like me, you meet his friends and realize one of them is way hotter/cooler than the guy your dating, thereby making you realize you don't really like the guy you're dating. But I truly believe it is not as terrible as being with a guy who is a pile of garbage wrapped in scraps of old meat. He's just chillin' with you 'til it's time to touch your boobs. Thinking that because he's spending tons of money on you that means he loves you and is not just… It's awesome when someone is treating you like The Beyonce of Beyonce Castle in terms of gifts and going places and doing cool shit. What I don't love is when that's all the person is doing because they can't articulate a single feeling in their brain or body (ahem, Mark and also Dave). Letting one adorable well-timed text compensate for a shit personality. But you've also never told me I'm pretty and we've been dating three months.
However, the weird part was that I wasn't a weak and stupid woman; I was a smart woman. I had lots of friends, a good job, and a nice home.A man is his own person and only he can make the decision to commit, be accountable, treat you right, and work on keeping the passion in the connection.As much as you'd love to have the power to steer him on the life-road of your choosing, it's not up to you.Your softer edges are the perfect place for him to rest his laurels.To soften your edges, it's important to get in touch with your feelings and senses.